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- What is your very earliest memory?
- Are you named after anyone, or do you know the reason why your parentsgave you the names that they did?
- Did anyone ever tell you which people were present at your birth? If so, whom?
- Did you ever hear any stories about anything interesting that happened during or soon after your birth?
- Was anything memorable (and perhaps funny) said by someone during or soon after your birth?
- How many siblingsdid you have?
- Did you ever share a room with siblings?
- If so, how many siblingsdid you share a room with?
- If you shared a room with siblings, which siblings in particular did you share a room with?
- If you shared a room with siblings, how did you feel about doing so?
- Did you ever have to sleepin the same bed as a sibling?
- If so, which siblingin particular?
- If you slept in the same bed with a sibling, how did you feel about having to do so?
- If you had one or more older siblings, how did you get along with them?
- If you had one or more younger siblings, how did you get along with them?
- Which siblingwere you the closest with?
- Which siblingdid you quarrel the most with?
- How would you quarrel with your sibling(s)?
- How often did you spend time with your cousins?
- Who were your favorite cousinsto spend time with?
- Where was your first childhoodhome?
- Did your first childhoodhome have electricity?
- Did your first childhoodhome after indoor plumbing?
- Did your first childhoodhome have a telephone?
- Whom did your parentstalk to on the phone most often?
- What did your childhoodhouse look like?
- How big or small was your childhoodhome?
- What rooms were there in your childhoodhome?
- Do you remember any particular smells or scentsfrom your childhood home?
- Can you recall any familiar soundsor noises from your childhood home?
- What kinds of sounds and smells do you remember when you first woke up in the morning?
- Did everyone in your household speak Englishas their first language?
- Were you or anyone in your family able to speak a languageother than English?
- If so, when and how did they learn that language?
- Did you ever have any pets, as a child?
- What were your pets’ names?
- Who got to choose those pets’ names, and how were they decided?
- How and when did your family get those pets?
- Did you have to work to convince your parentsto get the pet? If so, how did you finally convince them?
- Did the pet(s) belong to you personally, or did the pet(s) belong to one of your siblings, or did the pet(s) belong to the whole family?
- Who cared for the pet(s) (fed them, cleaned up after them, took them for walks, etc.)?
- What was involved in caring for your pet(s)?
- What kinds of gamesor activities did you play with your pet(s)?
- How long did the pet(s) live?
- How did you feel when each petdied?
- How would you usually cool off during the summer, when you were a child?
- How would you usually warm up during the winter, when you were a child?
- What was your favorite meal, growing up?
- Who cookedthat meal the best?
- What was your least favorite food, growing up?
- What would your parentssay or do if you didn’t finish some of your food?
- What were family meals like, in your household?
- Did you all sit and eattogether for every meal?
- What kinds of topics were discussed at the family dinner table?
- Were there any topics that were off-limits at the family dinner table?
- If so, which topics?
- Did your family ever grow, pickle, can, or home-make any food?
- What kind of oven did you have in your kitchen, when you were a child?
- Did you ever cookor help with the cooking, as a child?
- Did your household ever have a cooking disaster, or a meal that turned out really badly one time?
- If so, were you responsible for it?
- What kind of refrigerator did you have in your kitchen, when you were a child?
- What would your parentsdo for you when you were sick? Any special remedies?
- What was the sickest you ever got, as a child?
- Who was your best friend, as a child?
- How did you and your best friend become friends?
- What kind of things did you and your childhoodbest friend do together, that you didn’t do with other friends?
- What kind of gamesdid you play as a child?
- What was your favorite game to play?
- Did you ever play any video games, arcade games, or carnival games as a child?
- If so, which ones?
- Which video, arcade, or carnival game were you the best at?
- What was your favorite toyto play with?
- How big was your yard?
- What kind of trees or flowersgrew on your property?
- What kind of critters (bugs, birds, small animals, etc.) would you find on your property?
- Did you ever catch any bugs or animals on your property and try to keep them as a pet?
- Did you ever have your own garden as a child, or did you ever help someone else out with their garden?
- Did you live in the city or on a farm?
- If you lived on a farm, what kind of produce and livestock did your family raise?
- If you lived on a farm, what kind of farm-related choreswere you responsible for?
- What was your favorite farm-related chore to do?
- What was your least favorite farm-related choreto do?
- If you lived on a farm, did you ever give names to any of the farmanimals?
- If your family farmed or made produce, did you sell it at a grocery store or a farmer’s market perhaps?
- If so, which market, and where was it located?
- Did you have a favorite treatyou liked to buy for yourself at the grocery store or the soda shop?
- What was it, and how much did it cost you?
- Did you have a piano or a pump organ in your house, as a child?
- Did you ever take piano lessons or try to teach yourself to play the piano?
- If so, how good at playing the piano were you?
- Who were your family’s next door neighborswhen you were a child?
- What were your next door neighborslike? Friendly, mean, sociable, reclusive, etc.?
- How old were your next door neighbors?
- How often did your family or your next door neighborsvisit with each other?
- Did you ever receive any giftsfrom your neighbors?
- If so, what were they?
- Who would babysit you when your parentsweren’t home?
- Who was your favorite babysitter?
- What kind of gamesor activities would your babysitter do with you?
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